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On January 7th 1975 the world received a gift. Melissa was brought into this world. She was taken from us on January 4th 2022. She was way too young. She fought the fight for as long as she could. Her tired body finally is at rest and peace. Until we meet again my friend. TheContinue reading “The Loss Of Melissa”

I was working for Select Portfolio Servicing for almost 5 years. I was offered a position for another company at $6.50/hour more than what i was making. I felt like I just couldn’t turn down the opportunity. The job was a new part of the mortgage process that I had not yet learned. However IContinue reading “The Frustration Of Being Employed”

Over the last 5 years I have suffered many great losses. It gets harder with each loss to keep strong for those around me. I still have not taken time to grieve and mourn these losses. I need to take the time.

I am watching tv, news, & reading social media & I am troubled. You look up into the heavens and ask God Y? Where are You God? Or my favorite if God really existed why does He let bad things happen? We allowed fear, ignorance, & complete nonsense to take over. You took God outContinue reading “We Need God More Than Ever”

I discovered around March 1st 2021 that the covid vaccine would be available for 16 and older with specific health conditions. So I read the conditions and one of them was for BMI if 50. Sadly I met that criteria. Probably the one and only time my weight would work in my favor. I scheduledContinue reading “COVID-19 VACCINE”

They call it Covid-19 because it technically started in 2019. It has more of an impact for 2020. The ongoing joke is that this pandemic will be miraculously be gone after the “BIG” election in November. My work has extended the work from home until November. So I will be stuck at home for aContinue reading “September 3, 2020”

I wonder if everyone has a story like this. A story about a person who can came in and out of their lives at all different times, phases and always made a lasting impact. Do they know they made these impacts and how significant they were and are? I will be sharing this post withContinue reading “The Story Of John”

One of my first relationships was a toxic one. He was controlling, jealous, and physically & emotionally abusive. It did’t take long for me to figure out that this was not a normal relationship. I was only 17. I have had more relationships than I care to admit to. But I was usually pretty quickContinue reading “Toxic Of Our Lives”

I woke up and proceeded with my normal day. Little did I know it would anything but normal… My dad was awake and getting ready for his appointment with the Pulmonologists he had that morning. He was looking forward to this appointment. He said that it was going to be the doctor who will helpContinue reading “May 2, 2018”

I wish I could look back on this night and remember every single detail. But I cannot. Here is what I do remember. For a few nights, any time I was going to cook something for dinner, he would say he didn’t want that. He wanted something else. So we went to several of hisContinue reading “May 1st, 2018”